Am I An Earth Angel? Part Four
Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.
1st Peter 4:10
Am I An Earth Angel?
How to Cope with Life as an Earth Angel
Part 4 of 4
In the last of this series we will go over if you or your client is an Earth Angel, what it means to be an Earth Angel, and how to deal with the difficulties that arise during your journey.
How to Cope with Life as an Earth Angel
Earth Angels in Relationships
For an Earth Angel, a relationship has to be about being honored and cherished for who you are. This is because with the unconditionally loving nature of your heart that this is how you will treat your partner. You go into relationships with an open heart, vibrating love and joy everywhere you go. No one is spared the happiness that you feel and your friends may well groan when you go on and on about the virtues of your new-found relationship for the 200th time! Your energy field vibrates at its highest frequency at this time as you are vibrating the energy of unconditional love and it will touch everyone and every situation that you come in contact with.
However, when this is not reciprocated by your partner, an Earth Angel can go into an almost child-like place of fear and withdraw themselves both emotionally and physically from their partner. As Earth angels, you may find it hard to put into words what you want to communicate in a relationship as you are all about feelings, and you sense when things are wrong. Your senses are so heightened that you can sense the tone of how someone is going to speak before they have said it and you will often avoid having to be subjected to your partners outbursts/negative words by avoiding them themselves. Your most successful relationships will be with someone who is as open hearted and as kind as you, remember you are not perfect as you are still here to learn about life and to make mistakes, so when you are seeking perfection in a partner it can set you up for failure. However, seeking someone with the same open heart as yours is always possible. Interestingly you may find you have met people like that that you have had relationships with who you discounted as they were too ‘soft’. When we vibrate this energy, we attract a very different person into our lives, where the relationship becomes about complimenting each other's energy instead of depending upon it.
Earth Angels and Friends
Earth Angels make very good and loyal friends, you may find you attract people from all walks of life to you. This is because of your non-judgmental nature and your beautiful open heart which people feel and are drawn to. They feel you as a friend even before they get to know you. People find it very easy to open up to you and can pour their hearts out to you even when you don’t know them very well. This is because the bright light that you vibrate causes them to release blockages from their emotional and mental planes, they are receiving some kind of healing by being with you, though they are not conscious of what is happening. Your bright energy field takes in the negative energy that’s being released and transmutes it almost instantly to the light so that you are not impacted in any way.
However, please take note beautiful Earth Angels, you are still a physical being and it is very important for you to stay energetically clear, when you are feeling unwell your light shines less brightly and you can be susceptible to other people’s energy when it's released. This then causes your light to burn less and less and you can become even more ill and find it hard to lift. My best advice to you is to avoid heavy energy places, very crowded places and be discerning about who you spend your time with. This is because to help people you have to be at your best to do so, your energy field must work for you too and if it's depleted then you cannot be of service to others. That doesn’t mean you cut friends and family out of your life, it means you need to be conscious of how their energy impacts you and if you find yourself getting drained then you need to care for yourself first and spend less time with them.
Here are some situations you might find yourself in with friends and some tips to help you deal with them:
People tell you that they feel better after talking to you about their physical and/or emotional pains, but you tend to feel worse after such conversations
TIP: Find a way to break the connection with that person so you can disconnect with their emotional state and return to yours. A massage therapist will often shake out their hands and limbs after giving a massage, so by doing so or something similar after talking you can make that energy shift yourself with working relationships too. I love to have something physical to change my emotional connection to, something positive and healing for me, a piece of black tourmaline works great for me.
You’ve experienced having aches and pains, or intense emotions out of nowhere, only to find out later that someone you love is going through exactly that
TIP: If you feel pain or something, note where it hurts or what the emotion is and jot it down in a diary. Also one that fits in your purse when you're out. Emotional or pain burdens often feel halved when shared, even if it's just simply writing it down. Then if you find out that someone you love is going through something later, you have a reference of what and how it felt for you. Then maybe you can empathize or help them in the right direction of help, or healing, without feeling guilty or overwhelmed but the synchronicity.
Earth Angels and the Workplace
Some jobs are more satisfying and less stressful for Earth Angels than others. In order to excel in and enjoy your work, you must make the most of your gifts and sensitivities. You must express your intuition, your thoughtfulness, your quietness, and your creativity rather than trying to be someone you are not. The ego-centric corporate world is somewhere you will find it very difficult to survive in, this is because they are running their whole business ethos from their ego for profit rather than from their hearts for the benefit of the people and the greater good. However, the world of business is changing as humanity becomes more aware, and being a ´socially aware´ business with a code of ethics and an environmental policy is equating to consumers talking with their money.
Whether or not you believe that these businesses are doing it for show or not, there is a really fascinating chain of events being triggered by the process. Interestingly, the fact is, that by sending that message out to the universe they will find big changes start to happen in their businesses, people who are heart based and attracted to a business with humanistic ethics will be drawn to apply for jobs there and so the whole business will eventually shift. It's almost like a big spiritual trick; a business which is only motivated by money gets a team of angels working with the bosses, who plant the idea that if they want to make money (because that’s what motivates them) then they have to implement humanistic strategies in their businesses. This then starts a shift in the whole of the business and the guys at the top look at how they made more money but actually then start to feel better about the whole money-making process because it was ethical and served a wider purpose. So creating the change. It’s a bit like getting a child to eat their sprouts by offering them a dessert afterwards!
Traditionally, Earth Angels do better in lower stress, solo jobs, or with smaller companies. They are usually happiest working part or full time at home, away from the office frenzy, noise, politics, and nearby energy vampires. (They’re easier to deal with by email, text, or phone because they’re at a distance.) In such a job, you can plan your schedule and plan regular breaks to destress. Many Earth Angels prefer being self-employed to avoid the drain and overwhelm of co-workers, bosses, and packed schedules and tend to do better on their own time than with the frequent team meetings that are required in large businesses (unless the team is unusually positive and cohesive).
Here are some situations you may find yourself in in the workplace and some tips from Florence Rockwell of the Rockwell Project to help you deal with them:
When you’re in a room with many people, your emotions and/or the physical sensations in your body often change extremely from one moment to the next. You’re worried that you may be crazy somehow. Yet, when you’re by yourself, things tend to calm down
TIP: Firstly, stop trying to control your emotions or physical sensations you’re using up twice the energy just trying not to be “crazy”, and whatever that means to you, I assure you, everyone else is too worried about themselves. Enjoy the ride, it can be pretty exciting to feed off the excited energy in a room, then as you flit about pick up on one or two different things and possibly tune in to something more serious, or calm where you feel comfortable. Not worrying that you might be all over the place can give you the clarity to feel where you fit, and who you can best connect with.
You have trouble concentrating when other people are around, but you’re able to concentrate just fine when you’re by yourself
TIP: Plan time by yourself if you have lots of work to do, or you’re working on some particular project that needs a large amount of time and mental concentration. Planning this time will ensure you can relax and enjoy yourself when people are around, not feeling that anxious feeling in the pit of your stomach because your workload is piling up. You can rest in the confidence that you’ve planned it, it’s booked into your schedule so you’ll definitely get it done.
Some people get extremely uncomfortable around you, because they feel that you see right through them. You might have noticed that people avoid you when they want to hide what they are going through somehow
TIP: If you get a moment to speak to this person before they run away, open the conversation immediately with some reassurance – “Don’t worry, we don’t have to talk about it, I’ll be here if/when you want to share” – or something that is personal to them. You want to make them relax knowing you’re not going to pry or ask, and they can talk when they’re ready to, when they’ve processed or are in an emotional state that they’re willing to share what is going on.
You know a lot about other people, without knowing how. You used to think that everyone knew this much about everyone, but are coming to the realization that this is -strangely- not the case
TIP: This is a trippy one, someone just added me on LinkedIn today, who I’d never met, and knew nothing about. Looking at her and her profile I immediately felt like I could feel what kind of personality she had, and a warm bubbly energy. This is a GIFT – so love it and use it! I sent her a message engaging in very light conversation but about something specific she was doing. We’re all trying to be successful or do our bit in the world, it would be a waste or such a shame not to use the gift to help, build and thrive at what we do.
You feel extremely responsible for the well-being of the people around you. People have told you to let it go, or not take things so seriously, but you just can’t
TIP: You’re allowed to feel responsible. You are however NOT allowed to let that worry you, or bring you down. Sometimes just telling that person, “Hey I feel responsible for looking after you when you cross the road, cuz how you do it scares me” is enough to help. It makes them aware you care, and have a feeling of responsibility, and in a way, lets you off the hook. Then if you do anything, they have context for why you might have done it, and you can both have a laugh about it after. Breaking the tension isn’t removing the feeling, but removing the negative energy or feeling about the situation
You have trouble knowing what you want and need. To figure that out, you usually need to be by yourself for a stretch of time, and even then it may be much easier to voice what others want from you, than to say what you want for yourself
TIP: Again, plan these amounts of times into your diary. For me, I walk to and from work, and to my dance class. This allows me several amounts of time to think, process what happened that day, and how I need and want. And how I need or want to interact with people the next day. Standing up for myself doesn’t come easily but it is WAY easier if I have a clear head and have had time to emotionally calm and prepare myself by being alone
You notice that you’re more directly impacted by other people’s energy when looking someone directly in the eye, being in close proximity to someone or having a strong personal bond with someone (that can influence you over long distances)
TIP: In a business setting, why not use this gift. Connect with these people over a video or skype call. This way you can feel or see their energy and know what to say or maybe even more how to help and work with that person. If you find you have to interact with a person that you feel negative energy from, don’t organize to meet them face to face. If you call them on the phone, you can look at something that makes you feel calm – puppy videos on mute for example. You are in control of the situation and the energy – use it for your advantage and good
People tend to tell you things that “they’ve never told anyone before” even if they hardly know you
Gifted Empaths! This is amazing, maybe this will give you additional insight on how you can help, do good or work together as a team to create an amazing collaboration. Treated with respect this can build lasting and glorious working relationships that will last you a lifetime! Invest this energy in your future!
We are one, and so it is. I thank you.
The truth is that you are capable, in this moment, of fulfilling your purpose here on Earth. Perhaps you just don’t have the confidence to realize it just now but you are stronger than you think, feel your truth in your heart, and shine that truth out into the world.
Wake up each day and remind yourself that today is the day to embrace who you truly are. Even if you falter, keep going. Even if you doubt, don’t wait. Ask your angels, your guardians, the universe for guidance and pray to be open to the messages that are coming to you.
Aham prema, satnam
I am divine love, truth is my name